When the guest list, the budget, and family drama are all thrown into the mix, it’s easy to see that some couples just want to keep things simple. If this is you, Julian is a suitable choice. It is a small, pretty city and it's relaxed.

There's a difference between an elopement and a micro wedding. Typically, an elopement involves only you and your partner, perhaps a photographer and a witness. A small-size wedding, typically a micro wedding party of 10-30 people. They both perform well in the mountains, and require different planning.

As you begin researching Julian California wedding venues, enquire if they conduct small weddings. Other locations may be designed to accommodate large groups, and minimums are not realistic for a small group. Others will be willing to do a brief ceremony with a few people. Everyone knows that it costs less to avoid a lot of back and forth if it just resolves to a simple question.

Let's make sense of some of the things first:

Legal paperwork. A marriage license is required from the county, along with an officiant may be required. Beforehand, make sure to get a good idea of what is required.

Time of day. Late afternoon is when you'll find soft light and a cooler air.

Weather plan. The weather is fast-changing in the mountains. Be aware of the areas you would go if the weather turned bad, or if it got windy.

Photographer. Photos are even more important with a small event. Use a professional that is experienced in shooting outdoors weddings.

After differentiating a Julian wedding venue, consider the subsequent elements of the event. It can be more meaningful to have a small dinner party for your group, or even a quiet party for two, than a large reception. There's no shortage of places to dine at Julian and a slice of pie is almost a must, which is why we always want to end our night there.

It's important not to be rushed into adding any of the elements of a traditional wedding. Don't feel obligated to do the garter toss, long speeches or formal seating chart if they aren't your cup of tea. You can always have a greater party at home later on and invite all those who aren't able to make the journey.

When it comes to small weddings, the most valuable thing is the time that you get to be there. You’ll be able to remember every moment and so will the few of those standing next to you.